Thursday, July 14, 2022

Our Favorite Day Details - 3.5.22

So the last time I left off we were just beginning to plan a wedding...fast forward a year and the wedding has been planned, completed, and we're 4 months into marriage! I did not blog as planned...if you're new around here this sporadic blogging is nothing different than the usual. Our favorite day would not have been possible without the guidance and support of my parents and Damon's parents.

I know a lot of my friends are in the middle of wedding planning, getting engaged, or just looking for ideas in general! I wanted to splash all of our wedding day details in one place. All photos were taken by our photographers at Atlanta Dahlia Photography- we highly recommend this team! Annie Schiffmacher (A.Maker Events) coordinated the week-of and day-of our wedding. She is organized, very communicative, and works out of Myrtle Beach. She's awesome!

Save-the-Dates, Invitations, & RSVP's

I will forever be loyal to Truly Engaging by Magnet Street. Not only was this the most affordable website I found online, it was also the most editable. I was able to change color, font, text position, size. Literally anything you wanted to manipulate was editable! For some perspective, we ordered 100 invitations with raised gold foil, 100 guest & return addressed envelopes, and 100 RSVP postcards for a total of $197. My mind was blown! I highly suggest RSVP postcards- we pre-stamped and pre-filled in guest count so there was no confusion and all guests needed to do was check yes or no, sign their names, and drop them back in the mail box. We loved getting the postcards back in the mail! We also ordered our Save-the-Dates and Thank You cards from this company as well. We plan on ordering Christmas cards from here this year too!



Flowers, Boutonnieres, & Bouquets 

Let me start by saying my mama is a rockstar. We had faux floral everything and she handmade them all. Not a single real flower was used and it all turned out incredible. We kept tables to glass hurricanes, glass jarred candles, and a faux Lamb's Ear garland. Bouquets were a beautiful mix of peachy and green floral from Hobby Lobby, Michael's, and Walmart. Stems were wrapped in jute and a braided beaded mix of twin. We shopped Hobby Lobby 50% off sales throughout the year. There was about a $400 total in florals.




Signage, Guestbook, & Favors

It was really important to us (mom and I) that we use things that could later be repurposed. For example, all of our signage (besides the guestbook) were in glass frames that both of us have now reused in our own homes and the leftover bell favors will be used on the Christmas tree this year. I bought a wedding sign bundle off of Etsy and we printed everything ourselves. This included a memory sign, bar menu, bride and groom drinks sign, an exit sign, a guestbook sign, etc. Damon and I wanted a fun guestbook, so we chose to use a couple boxes of Jenga blocks for guests to sign. Everyone rang their bell favor during our first kiss. Tip- Print your seating chart at Office Depot as a poster! I designed a poster on Publisher and uploaded it to Office Depot. They printed it for $20 and that was the biggest money savor we came across!







I wish we had gotten a picture of the seating chart in the daylight, but I am so proud of this thing! It was easy to create, extremely affordable, and easy to navigate!

Table Settings

My MOH Laura was the real MVP on this one. I was able to reuse all of her glass hurricanes from her wedding which was a big money saver. We bought a few extra from Dollar Tree, Goodwill, and Walmart to fill in here and there. Guest tables had 3 different sized hurricanes, a Lamb's Ear garland, and 3 candles. I didn't want the tables to be too crowded with decorations, so I chose to use a vinyl decal on one hurricane to show the table numbers for guests. The wedding party table had a mix of Lamb's Ear, Reserved signs, candles, and a terracotta cheese cloth runner going through it to tie in our wedding colors. Napkins were white cheese cloth and tied in a knot in front of guest seats.






Cocktail Hour, Dinner, & Cake

The biggest regret (if I can even call it that) was that I didn't get to see our cocktail hour come together. Thankfully, our awesome photographers got some incredible shots and from what I've heard everything was delicious. We used a company out of Sunset Beach called Host & Graze and they were amazing. We chose to do a huge charcuterie spread instead of a few different apps circulating. We wanted people to save room for dinner and hangout! Our wedding cake was simple and we really loved the idea of cupcakes. After shopping around for cakes and cupcakes, we realized that a major chunk of the budget would be going to dessert. We chose to use Walmart Bakery cupcakes (vanilla cake, vanilla icing) and got a couple dozen Gluten Free cupcakes from Cakes by the Sea (vanilla cake, vanilla icing) and a small cake just for us to cut. I ordered a topper from Etsy and grabbed some gold dust glitter to toss on it all. The dessert table came together beautifully! Tip: Highly recommend saving money on dessert and Walmart Bakery cupcakes were yummy. We used Middle of the Island out of Wilmington for our dinner buffet and caterer. Their staff was fun and enthusiastic and the food was delicious! We chose the route of providing our own alcohol (shoutout Damon's parents) and it was a big money saver. We went on a big trip to Total Wine in SC to scoop it all up.







Dresses & Suits

Our bridesmaid dresses and groomsmen ties came from Birdy Grey in the color Terracotta. They had amazing customer service from what I have been told from my girls! Flower girl dresses came from Amazon for around $20 and they were legitimately the sweetest thing! We ordered little denim jackets for them as well. Groomsmen suits came from Men's Wearhouse. My dress came from Camille's of Wilmington (10/10 experience there) and my veil came from...Amazon! The BEST $35 and I would do it over and over again. It seriously looked like the $185 veil that went with my dress. I ordered a couple different veils and this one matched flawlessly.









Ceremony

Early on we knew we wanted our officiant to be meaningful to us because we are both uncomfortable in front of the spotlight. Having someone up at the front we were familiar with was a big deal to us. Damon's brother, Bryce, was our officiant and he did a great job. He made us laugh and we truly had fun up there. It was over in the literal blink of an eye some would say. We knew we wanted the ceremony to be quick and simple- we were there for the reception! 




DJ

After "asking Facebook," I got a few suggestions for Shaun Burriss. I am now convinced he is an angel on Earth! We had some hiccups with our venue and he powered through them when I thought for sure he would wash his hands of it. Shaun is not that kind of guy and Damon and I both were so appreciative of him and how communicative and patient he was! He kept the dance floor full and his playlist was amazing. 




Hair & Make-Up

A close friend and incredibly talented girly, Sarah Palmer, did our make-up. She did make-up for Laura's (MOH) wedding on a whim and I knew from there she was the girl for the job. She also does make-up on the side when she is not in the hospital being a nurse! My hair stylist for the last 5 years, Kristin Earp, did all of our hair. She's the best and co-owns Honeycomb Salon in Shallotte, NC. Highly recommend!



Us Two

I had found the company Olive Avenue Jewelry when I was looking at wedding rings (and wishful thinking) one day on Pinterest. It's cute because I had actually pinned my engagement ring and my MOH, Sam, helped Damon decide between a couple of rings based on that pin! Damon's band (funny enough named the Damon) and both of my rings came from Olive Ave. We also both switched into matching Vans for the reception. We fell in love with this floral print when we saw it online!




I'm sure I'm missing some details that will come to me later. I'll list all of our vendors below that made the day possible and would love to talk about any of them if you have questions!

Vendors:
Coordinator- Annie Schiffmacher with A.Maker Events (10/10)
Dinner buffet- Middle of the Island (10/10)
Cocktail hour- Host & Graze (10/10)
Hair- Kristin Earp with Honeycomb Salon (10/10) Instagram: @hair_by_kristinnn
Make-up- Sarah Palmer out of Charlotte, NC (10/10)
DJ- DJ SBz (10/10)
Cake & Cupcakes- Walmart Bakery (cupcakes) & Cakes by the Sea (GF options)
Photography- Atlanta Dahlia Photography (10/10)
Wedding dress- Camille's of Wilmington (10/10) 
Wedding veil- Amazon (10/10- linked above)
Bridesmaid dresses & Groomsmen ties- Birdy Grey (10/10)
Groomsmen suits- Men's Wearhouse
Flower girl dresses- Amazon (10/10- linked above)
Invitations & RSVPs- Magnet Street (10/10)
Rings- Olive Avenue Jewelry (10/10)
Rehearsal dinner- The Oyster Rock in Calabash, NC (delicious, accommodating, very organized)
Venue- Slate & Cypress