Monday, March 24, 2014

Learning to be better.

In the last couple of weeks, I think I have learned more than ever to just keep my mouth shut. This is probably not a surprise to many of you, but I find a lot of things to be "stupid." Not stupid in the sense that no one should ever do it, but as in I wouldn't do it. Believe me,  I'm not saying everything I think and do is right, that would be ignorant of me. I just like to share my opinions. I'm very blunt and I don't really tend to hide what I'm feeling - that's just who I am.

Oh man, has this been challenging for me! Of the few times I have said what I wanted to lately, I knew I shouldn't have said anything at all in the end. Most of the time, people don't really care what you have to say if it contradicts what they're feeling. At least that's what I have noticed. Then the whole situation turns messy and that's just no fun to clean up.

I'm slowly learning to let go of things I can't control. If it's important to someone else and not life threatening to them, I need to learn to be supportive. I can be supportive of things that I don't agree with - that's what I need to keep telling myself.

Sorry for the little rant! I don't do these things often, this may be the first one. It's just been weighing on me and I feel like I share everything else with you all anyway! Hopefully some can relate.







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