5 Things I Can't Stand

1. Rudeness. There is absolutely no reason you can't hold a door open for someone or simply say "excuse me" or "thank you." I understand that you might be in a hurry to get somewhere, but people remember the negatives more than the positives. An "excuse me" will go a long way. Oh yeah, and smile back at someone when they smile at you. It's just nice.

2. The incessant use of the 'F' word. I get that you might stump your toe and say it really loudly, but replacing every other word in a sentence with it is a little ridiculous- when I say a little, I mean a lot.

3. People who talk while the professor is talking. We're all guilty of this, I mean who doesn't love a good conversation? But please, if you're going to talk literally the whole time during a lecture, why did you even come? Take it outside.

4. I can't really fix this one, it's just nasty. When you're walking and a stranger sneezes in front of you, then you have to walk through their "sneeze cloud." It makes me want to throw up. I know I'm going to be sick next week.

5. Loud neighbors. Oh my gosh y'all, I have the WORST hall neighbors in the history of worst hall neighbors. They would completely be in the 'Worst Hall Neighbors in the World' hall of fame. I think being loud and rude and annoying and hateful and, well you get it, is their specialty.

Bonus!

6. People who walk around blaring music from their phones- like everyone wants to hear that. Get some headphones.

This was just a little Sunday-Funday post. I hope it was relatable!

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Easter Weekend, plus more!

Oh my goodness y'all! I feel like I haven't posted in forever. So much has been going on as this semester is coming to a close- and fast. Easter weekend was wonderful with my family, but before I get into that re-cap, I want to go back a little further to before Easter.

Capital Cities came to UNCC to play a concert a few weekends ago. I didn't really know what to expect, since the only song I know by them is "Safe and Sound," but they were awesome! I have a couple of videos (crossing my fingers that they upload correctly) to show you guys. I went with Katie and Kelsey, my current roomies, and the best part was- it was for free!

Concert ready!

Capital Cities!

They were so good!

The concert was toward the end of the week, so the anticipation for Easter weekend was steady rising! I was so excited to get home.

On Thursday, Kels and I hit the road and headed back to the 910. I can't reiterate enough how ready I was to go home. I couldn't wait to see my family, plus my brother was home. That's pretty rare nowadays since we're both busy with school and in two different cities. It was a weekend FULL of family selfies, food, of course a little shopping, and fun.

Friday, we went to Myrtle Beach (oh boy, has the tourist season started) and hit the NASCAR Speedpark. Brother and dad raced cars all day, while mom and I played video games. It was fun watching them race each other and to hear their excuses  on why they lost, typical boys.

Family car selfie!

Mama and I

Brother and Mom casually attacked my camera.

On Saturday, I finally got back into the swing of things at work. Summer can't come fast enough- I need some shopping money, probably money for insurance, my phone, and gas, but definitely shopping! I stopped by MaryLou's house that night on the way home from work. I have missed her so much!

Us lookin' ratch Saturday night.

Naturally.

Easter Sunday, we all got up and went to church. Brother had to leave to go back to school that morning. Luckily, I didn't have to leave until Monday morning! My 12:30 class was cancelled, so it gave me an extra day home.

Easter morning family selfie!

Sweet Nana and Mama!

The rest of Sunday was pretty steady. Grandma made a wonderful Easter lunch and we munched on that the rest of the day. I had to pack everything up to come back to school- my least favorite part.

Monday morning was my Mom and Dad's 24th wedding Anniversary! That's so great. I think love like that is so uncommon these days, especially high school sweethearts. They are the best people I know and I can't wait for them to have 24 more years!

Kels and I got back to school on Monday afternoon and went to math class (barf). Tuesday was pretty slow. Yesterday (Wednesday) Katie, Charlotte, Kels, and I went to Southpark Mall and had dinner at the Cheesecake Factory. Yum! We've had a couple of roomie nights this week and that's not very often, so it was nice to hangout with all three of them! It's definitely going to be weird not seeing them everyday next year. Change will be welcomed though, I think we're all ready for something new!

Tuesday night roomie dinner at the Bistro!

I had dinner tonight with Laura (future roomie) at Crown and we were talking about next year! We are so excited about decorating and living closer to our classes. I made a board on Pinterest y'all! I'm already planning decorations for my room! I'm sure there will be a post about it when it all comes together in, ya know, 3 or so months.

This weekend is going to be filled with playing catch-up with homework, papers, and getting ready for final exams. There's exactly two weeks from today that I will be home for summer break! I can't wait. I hope everyone had a fantastic Easter weekend! To all of my college friends: just two more weeks guys, we got this!



Lake Norman Camping Adventure!

As promised...it's the camping post!

Over the weekend of April 4th-6th, a few of us went camping at Lake Norman State Park. It was a bunch of fun! I have not been camping in years and it was nice to experience it again. 

Laura (future roomie), Kels (current roomie), and I left campus at about 2pm on Friday and hit the road! We were meeting the boys (Kels' boyfriend and some of his friends) at the campground and we were anxious to get there and get everything set up. Us girls arrived about an hour or so before the boys, so we decided to put up our own tent all by ourselves! I know, right? After a lot of instruction contemplation, we finally had that bad boy put up and ready for the weekend.

Baby Ferg has never been so FULL! We three barely had room for our bodies in the seats. Maybe a little bit of over-packing occurred?

Hitting the road selfie!

We arrived!

So happy to have finally gotten there!

Before...

After! We were so proud of ourselves - taking the tent down was a different story.

Thanks, boys!

Y'all, we were so proud of it!

After we finished unpacking everything and the boys got there, we decided to get ready for dinner. We had hotdogs, chips, and beans for dinner. Classic camping cuisine. We roasted marshmallows over the fire and Robbie (Kels' boyfriend) played his guitar some. It was getting late, so we cleaned everything up before it was completely dark and thought we had tied our trash up high enough...key word there: thought.

We were completely wrong.

We had some lovely little raccoon visitors at about 3 in the morning. The trash bag was by our tent and we were so freaked out! We had to yell the boys' names so they would come and chase the raccoons away. Anyway, that was quite an experience. The park "host" was so hateful to us because we were making "too much noise" while cleaning everything up - whatever lady, you would be making noise too.

The next day was fantastic! It was exactly what I wanted it to be, SUNNY AND 70 DEGREES! So beautiful and perfect for the little "beach" they have there. We made these precious little eggs in muffin pans with turkey bacon for breakfast, then it was off to the lake! We stayed out there for about 5 hours and we got pretty crispy, as in sunburnt! I'm still paying for it...aloe, aloe, aloe. The water was too cold for us, but the boys had a fun racing and swimming in it.

BEAUTIFUL forecast!

Lake pictures!

After we got back to our campsite from being at the lake all day, Robbie made dinner for everyone. They were called 'hobo meals' and they were good! It was hamburger meat, carrots, cheese, onions, and potatoes all mixed together - kind of like a stew, but not soupy.Then marshmallows were roasted and apple cider was heated up on the fire. Delish! We packed all the trash up that night and took it straight to the dump, we didn't want anymore visitors in the middle of the night.

The sunset was pretty through the trees!

Sunday morning group shot (L to R): Kels, Robbie, Sawyer, Craig, Michael, me, Laura

I'm not going to lie, I was ready to get back in a regular bed after the second night. It was so fun, but I do like my heat, a bathroom that's in the same building I am, and mattresses. Sunday morning, we packed everything up, grabbed a pop tart, and got on the road. We were back on campus before lunch time.

It was a great time and I had a lot of fun making some "college freshman memories." I will definitely do it again! It was great to meet you guys, Craig, Michael, and Sawyer!

If you're a bargain shopper...

If you're my friend on Facebook, then you have probably had one of my thredUP links pop up on your news feed. It's no joke! This website is amazing.

Whenever and wherever I shop, I always look for the sale or clearance section first. It's a rule. I can do just that on thredUP. The best part is - it's ALL on sale! It's a gently used clothing website, just like Plato's Closet (in website form). You can buy things or send your things in for cash! I ordered two packages last week and they both arrived today in THE CUTEST packaging!

How precious is that? Enjoy!

The website is so organized and there is a category for just about anything you're looking for - even clothes new-with-tags! I ordered a tank from H&M that was new-with-tags and it only cost me $3 on thredUP, when it would've been about $8 in the store. It's like a tunic and it's going to be perfect for a beach cover-up this summer!



I also ordered a dress by Express and a shirt by Forever 21. They have a ton of name brand items to choose from and I already want to order more! 

They put these cute little tags on everything!

If you're feeling thrifty, definitely check thredUP out! The link is below and you get $10 OFF your first order! Go ahead, try something new!

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I hope everyone's week started off great on this Monday!

Mama's coming to town!

Just a little (almost middle of the week) excitement!

Yesterday, I found out that my sweet mama was coming to town for a few days for a work conference. I'm so excited! She had told me about it previously, but (being me) I had forgotten. I get to spend a couple of days with her and I cannot wait!

As you guys may recall in my Parents made a Cameo Appearance post, that was the first time they had visited me since move-in. I get to take mom to Amelie's this time and I can't wait for her to try the salted caramel brownie - TO DIE FOR! I wish dad was coming with her, but one fantastic parent visit is better than no fantastic parent visit at all. Can't wait to see you, mama! (You too daddy for Easter!) Love y'all!

I promise this camping trip post is coming so soon - stay tuned for the update!

Have a wonderful rest of the week!

Quick Pinterest Outfit!

Hi all!

In honor of this BEAUTIFUL spring weather we had this afternoon, I thought I would put together a quick Pinterest outfit that's perfect for a warm/hot spring day out. Here we go!

I always start my outfit with what shirt I want to wear for the day. Then, I build around it with my jeans, shoes, and accessories.

I picked out two shirts from my Pinterest page that are ADORBS.

 

This first shirt is a stripy number that's great for a sunny spring day. It has a dip in the back with a little strap connecting both sides. It's a subtle detail that makes a big difference in your look!

My second shirt option is this t-back tank! It's flowy and perfect for hot, breezy weather. The color is more on the pastel side, a fantastic spring trend happening right now.

 

I always choose what bottoms I want to wear next! The second essential to every outfit.

 

I am IN LOVE with boyfriend jeans! You can find them in almost any retail store right now and I think they are an optimal choice to add to anyone's closet who is looking for that absolute causal piece.

 

On to the shoes!

 

An ideal pair of black sandals should be in EVERYONE'S closet! They are appropriate for just about any occasion, just about any outfit, and super easy to dress down or up as well!

 

Accessory time!

 

Please, please ladies: let your bag always match your shoes. I think that is a golden rule, at least it should be to me. This is a Fossil bag and I adore the shape of it. I have a black bag that is very similar from Urban Outfitters and I carry it often! So cute!

Add a couple of gold accessories to match the hardware on the bag and shoes. It really pulls the outfit together when you think about all of the little details! I am dying for one of these necklaces, they are easily purchased on Etsy and personalized, too! 

Swipe on a nude lip and you are ready to go! Revlon is a very affordable brand and can be found at almost every drugstore.

 

I'm thinking about doing one of these posts every now using pins from my Pinterest page. I think it's a good way to utilize my pins for a purpose. You can follow me by clicking on the Pinterest bar to the right of the post if you want to. I hope this was fun to read because it was fun to write!

 

The camping trip is approaching soon, so stay tuned for the big camping post! I'm so excited to be going on a mini "vacation"  with some friends for a weekend. It's going to be so fun. I can't wait to fill you all in on it!

 











Learning to be better.

In the last couple of weeks, I think I have learned more than ever to just keep my mouth shut. This is probably not a surprise to many of you, but I find a lot of things to be "stupid." Not stupid in the sense that no one should ever do it, but as in I wouldn't do it. Believe me,  I'm not saying everything I think and do is right, that would be ignorant of me. I just like to share my opinions. I'm very blunt and I don't really tend to hide what I'm feeling - that's just who I am.

Oh man, has this been challenging for me! Of the few times I have said what I wanted to lately, I knew I shouldn't have said anything at all in the end. Most of the time, people don't really care what you have to say if it contradicts what they're feeling. At least that's what I have noticed. Then the whole situation turns messy and that's just no fun to clean up.

I'm slowly learning to let go of things I can't control. If it's important to someone else and not life threatening to them, I need to learn to be supportive. I can be supportive of things that I don't agree with - that's what I need to keep telling myself.

Sorry for the little rant! I don't do these things often, this may be the first one. It's just been weighing on me and I feel like I share everything else with you all anyway! Hopefully some can relate.